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Imagine the perfect
relationship...
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Your passion for each other stays alive throughout your relationship
● Your love and
respect for each other
grows over time
● You are able to
experience the deepest intimacy with each other, without losing yourself
● Your
communication really works, and it is okay that you communicate in
different styles
You must have noticed
- and most likely experienced - that most people are
usually happy at the
beginning of a relationship but then as time
passes that happiness diminishes.
Maybe you are in a
relationship now and are finding that the qualities you once found interesting or adorable
about your partner have started to irritate or annoy you? Or maybe you love your partner dearly, but your relationship
has become
more like one between two very good friends who happen to live together
and share responsibilities, but there's no longer any spark between you?
And, if you have children, chances are you experience far less desire
and passion for your partner than previously, putting this down to
exhaustion and lack of time.
Most of us believe
that these are unavoidable consequences of staying in a long-term
relationship, but it doesn't have to be that way. Instead of staying
stuck in a
relationship bonding pattern where you either take care of each other's inner child, becoming a parent
to them, which makes your relationship cozy and warm but also diminishes
your sexual attraction toward each other; or where you
become an angry and judgmental parent with each other's inner child,
leading to arguments, nagging, and putting each other down, you can
learn to unhook from these limiting relationship patterns.
You can help this process by strengthening your connection with your
partner - for your connection with each other is the lifeline of all
strong relationships.
My book distils into 10 steps what you need to do to strengthen
your connection with your partner and to navigate the bonding
patterns your relationship might have fallen into so that you can open up that lifeline for the love between you
to flow.
Many people endure relationships that have become stale,
or they leave perfectly good
relationships simply because a problem has manifested that they don't know
how to deal with. You don't have to follow in either of those
less-than-ideal paths.
My husband and I have applied the steps in this book to our own relationship and have gained the most
wonderful rewards: We have been happily together for 18 years, we have
three wonderful children, and we are more in love with each other now than when we first began our relationship. I
personally don't know how people manage to stay in relationships (at least
fulfilling ones) without
this knowledge.
I also don't know how couples
manage to wade through all those bulky relationship books and then find
the time to analyse all that information within the context of their own
relationship. It's more effective, with quicker results, to just take
some simple steps. So The Perfect
Relationship is
straight-to-the-point and quick and easy to read - you can read it in less
than a
few hours.
Here's some
feedback from readers:
"I
know your work will make a huge difference to the lives of many
people."
Mrs A Salis
"A
little book that simplifies a very complicated issue into a
revelation of understanding."
Lynn
Danaher
My guarantee
I
am giving you a 100% money back guarantee that The
Perfect Relationship will give you the tools to make your
relationship truly fulfilling. If you aren't satisfied with
this book, simply request a refund from PayPal and I will honour it. No questions asked.
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More endorsements:
"A wonderfully simple, clear and practical book
on relationship that will be of great help to anyone who reads it.
It puts into perspective what a good relationship is about and
shows the difference between living with another person and
seriously partnering with another person. Astra has an ability to
work with very profound ideas and translate them into language
that makes them available to people with little psychological
experience."
Dr Hal Stone and Dr Sidra Stone,
psychotherapists, authors,
and founders of Voice Dialogue.
"... filled with powerful, yet
easy to apply, methods that can really improve any type of relationship. I
recommend this book wholeheartedly and encourage you to apply what
Astra has
revealed."
Michael Domeyko Rowland, personal growth teacher and
best-selling author
"... provides extremely useful
advice for people living a long term relationship. If we, readers, started to implement at least half of the ten rules, I am sure the world would change, beginning by our families."
Pierre Cauvin, OD consultant and coach in France,
author of several books, including “Le Soi aux mille
visages”
"The Perfect Relationship
... has been very well received by our clients and is now recommended reading for our trainees."
Paul and Robin Gale-Baker
Directors of Australian Institute for Relational Training
and Voice Dialogue Australia
Here's a sample chapter:
Introduction
to
The Perfect Relationship
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